Category Archives: Relationships

CHANGING THE ONE YOU LOVE

Is that special someone not ‘perfect’ enough?

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Changing the one you love is no solution and here’s why: At some point in life, you fall in love with a ‘special someone’.  Everything is new and exciting at the beginning then, ever so slowly,  you determine that your love interest needs some fine tuning so you begin chipping away at the uniqueness that first attracted  you to him/her.  Your sweetheart then tries to live up to your expectations until he/she is not  quite the ‘original’ you fell in love with, leaving you disenchanted.  You had a good thing  going…then you changed it!

Are you now prepared to be in a relationship with a duplicate of yourself, or would you prefer the diversity of someone who feels free to be himself/herself around you?

LIFE LESSON:   INSISTING THAT SOMEONE MEET OUR EXPECTATIONS DOES NOT  HONOR THAT PERSON!